Tips for dealing with teaming at each stage of the game in FFA?

I’m a magnet for getting teamed in FFA. Literally each of the last 9 games I’ve played ended in me getting dog-piled by the whole lobby for having the highest score or getting spies first or some nonsense. I almost always avoid attacking anyone all game so as to not start something with another player. I imagine that after a certain amount of players and against certain civs, losing is inevitable because of the pop cap, but I’d love to know if there are good strategies for dealing with just 2 or 3 players teaming you.