Just me ranting on the DE

AoE3 its great, but every time i play the definitive edition with a bro we spend 20% of the time actually playing and 80% of the time trying to play. Seriously, in the lobbys suddenly the game freezes and crashes (And the game takes so long to launch, in the first day i think it took me like 5-6 minutes to start, i can't tell wether it was improved or i just got used to it that i didn't even notice), the loading screen its awful, because most of the time is absent and instead i see a blackscreen. If one of us make it into the game, it's very likely that later he (his setup its much better than mine) gets a crash in mid or late game or if you get disconnected for 0.1 second you wont reconnect, because it just dont works. We spent 2 hours today trying to play something, and between crashes, disconnections (one of a teammate and one of him), loading screens, eternal queues in a game that barely five persons in somewhere Europe play, we just got to play 1 game without issues and that's because it ended early before any problems arose. Let's not even talk about optimization, i've been playing with shitty graphics and unstable 30 fps (Original in maximum looks better and runs better than DE in minimum) so much time that i've got accostumed to it lol. Age of Empires is known for its low requirements, but even a Total War (Attila, ToB, WH2) runs better and looks way better. Maybe i've just had a bad day, or the game is really unstable, i just wanted to vent off

Edit: Ah, the cav box it's still a feature in the game and the new voices for Iro, Sioux and the Inca sounds like they were made by modders lol (No offense to WOL)