Will reconnecting or some sort of fix ever come for crashes?

Its getting unbareable to play this game anymore. 1/5 games just instant wins or losses because 1 person just crashes to the desktop or dc's. Its not fun. Is there any sort of remedy coming to this? Because its AOE2:DE itself that just isn't working properly and theres no fixes for the players. I don't want to even touch the game in fear of it crashing most games. I've had MULTIPLE games where our entire 3 man team freezes and then crashes to the desktop simultaniously (Assuming its the same for the enemy team). And whop, our elo goes down with it. Its not fair to loose elo to this, especially when we can just reboot the game in like 20 seconds. All these issues would be easily solved with a reconnecting system. Or at least allowing us to take control of our team's units like in starcraft. Its such a damn shame because the game itself is extremely fun. But crashing and disconnecting to have an instant loose isn't and its completely ruined the game for me. Theres no excuse for not having a reconnecting system when they have the time to produce DLC's that no one really asked for. Theres more than enough content.