Help me get better

Hey guys

I‘m just getting started at aoe2 (sinde march) and in around 1000elo after about 100 games. Right now i like to play as ethiopians because i like to use archers and i like siege and i enjoy to have hussars and shotels for raiding. I usually play the archer build from hera and the build order trainer mod and i enjoy coming to castle age already having archers which i can upgrade afterwards. But i always struggle against rushes with scouts or man at arms. The problem is that people just get up way faster than me, because i need 22 pop to go up. Because of that they can harass me and i can‘t get up into castle age. I find it hard to get put of these circle s when they start pressuring me early and when i loose it‘s almost always the same way and i don‘t know what to do against it since quickwalling is very difficult. I was hoping you could recommend me some builds or tips on how to avoid getting behind that early in 1v1. If i once have my 10 or so archers i usually get the upper hand but when they attack mi very early i always struggle. Thanks for your help.

Wololo