Military production and booming tips

I tend to lose the game if my early aggression in feudal and castle didn’t kill the enemy by a landslide. I think after that I tend to struggle with military production while booming and tend to be always short on some resource ( either not enough for more mangonel for their archers, or didn’t get resource ready to get all the knights armor upgrade). Usually, if we were pretty equal in power in fuedal and early castle, my opponent always reach imp faster than I did and I would eventually lose.

It just feels like I just can’t keep up both military and booming and don’t have a strong backbone and the aggression fades as time moves on in a game. Another example is team game, let’s say we do 2v2. After I finish my neighboring opponent in mid fuedal or early castle, the other opponent usually have a stronger army and Econ ( who may have finished my teammate pretty much ) than mine and would eventually finish me in Imp.

Any tips for this? My elo is around 1000 now. I tend to be more on the aggression side and suck at walling. If this helps you see my symptoms —- I also suck at Arena maps. I feel the same way — my military is not as strong as I had hoped and the booming didn’t seem to provide enough backbone to keep me going.