BIG Frame rate problem in Age Of Mythology Extended Edition

I using a Ryzen r7 6800h, Nvidia 3060 mobile 140w When there is situation like defend an ancient wonder which are 4 or 5 titans and 300-400 units, my fps drop from 35-48 to 12-18

Settings are maxed out and resolution 2560x1440, and if I use 1920x1080 I have the same problem. Go down from 165 or 144hz to 60hz but same

I tried to change some settings from Nvidia control panel, and had set 3060 for aom but no way

It's ridiculous since I can almost play cyberpunk maxed out at 90 fps (with dlss)