Definitive Edition Crashing In Multiplayer

As the title says I've been having some issues with playing multiplayer with my friend, after roughly 20-30 minutes the game crashes to desktop, this seems like a known issue but I can't find a solution that works, I've tried increasing the virtual memory, deleting the hd dlc, closing all backround applications and having him host the match no matter what I do It always crashes, does anyone have anymore suggestions on how to fix this? Any help is appreciated