Question re: Custom Lobby Player Ping

To preface, my ranked/quick play games are normally fine--but oftentimes custom lobbies end up lagging like mad, either from the benchmark requirement not being mandatory or players with terrible ping joining from the darkside of the moon.

Question: when creating a custom lobby, is it possible to see other users ping and/or is there a method to filter out/block users with yellow or red ping?

Not trying to be a player h8r by any means. Most have limited options for internet services, and a lot of players can't afford a decently modern computer, so the lack of a minimum benchmark requirement for at least one online game mode makes sense. Fixing the ping takes at least one potential issue out of the equation and cuts down on the occasionally tilting AOE2: Powerpoint Edition custom game when I'm in relax-after-a-long-day mode just trynna clown and chill.