Teammate gets attacked in Feudal. Starts begging for help. Haven't made a unit yet. You start to make stuff to help. They complain 25x more times. You finally have enough and send help. They say GG and quit...

Whose doing it wrong? Am I supposed to throw everything at maybe helping a teammate in feudal? Or am I supposed to play my game and they can fend for themselves?

I mostly play Nomad...

Seems like a very common end to games.