Can you help totally lost noob-girl? Becarefoul, I have probably very stupid questions.

Hi, in the beginning I want to say, I played Age of Empires as a little girl, but I don't remember much. I remember watching my brother playing coz it was too hard for me. But I remember there was some charm in this game, so when I saw Definitive Edition on Windows Pass I decided to grab it.

I realy like the design, the music and overall feel. I had fun with toturial, and everything was clear, even I don't speak English very well and I had to check up many military words. Unfortunately there is no localization for my native language, but I hope to overcome it.

So after toturial I still feel like I know nothing. There is so many civilizations to choose from and they don't say which ones are for beginners. I tried some randomly and it didn't look like toturial at all, and I was lost.

I looked up some toturials and walktroughts in the Internet, but they are either too basic I learn nothing new, or too detailed I feel too dump to understand them.

So I have some basic questions, I hope nobody will get offended I don't understand this game yet.

So what is this game mostly about? I got fooled it's about building towns, but I think it's mostly about military and fighting? And the village is only to support army? Are there any peaceful missions, or it's always about destroying someone?

Is there any way game teaches about more advance aspects after the toturial or I'm on my own? Coz I know there are some stronger and weaker points of every troops and some are better for specific enemies, but I have problems with memorizing it.

Can you recommend easy campaigns/civilisations for beginner? Coz they don't have much description and I don't know where to start.

Is standard difficulty ok for total noob or should I go lower?

I have problem with point clicking. When I want soldiers to go somewhere I most of the time click nerby villagers and monks by accident and they all go in one big group and it's hard to catch sneaky ones. Is there some way to mange people or am I doing something wrong? Can I somehow fish one type of people from the group?

Is there a way to tell all my soldiers to go back to their buildings without clicking on them? Coz I sometimes loose some guys somewhere and I can't find them in the bush.

How does population work? I understand there is population cap and I can't have more people? Is this dependant of the houses or there is overall limit in the game? When I create new soldier I need free villager before or they are created separately? Do soldiers live in the houses or just villagers?

Is there an easy way to catch unemployed villager and give him a job? Coz I think there was something in the toturial but I didn't catch it.

Can I rotate buildings?

How many ages there is? How far I can advance? Is there something better than castle age?

Do you have any general tips or tricks?