Unpopular opinion: random civ should be the standard, the yellow [?] box should function the opposite way

Players should be allowed to pick civ if a majority agrees on it, the picked civs then overrides 'random civ'

alternative: allow players to enable a filter to only match up with those who have [?] enabled, increasing the average queue time for each player, but giving those who greatly prefer random a better time.

Reasoning: im perfectly fine with people hoanging, i can tolerate ppl who go full lame with mongols/ goths, but it doesnt seem fair to me those players can train their one trick over and over again, while I have to learn to play vs many different all-in styles. Picking mirror does not mitigate this advantage. This is a personal opinion of course, but i don't find it very fun to play vs people who do the same stuff over and over again. I never feel satisfied when i win those kind of games

Thoughts? Feel free to disagree/downvote this post. just wondering what reddit thinks of this 😊