Can you help a noob starting out

I just got this game and i love it.

I have been following the ingame tutorials trying some noob only servers and i just get slaughtered.

People use some sort of build order.

My questions are.

How do get a build order and display it on your screen to learn im using steam DE version.

what do i do when i can only find 4 sheep even if i venture out with villigars.

How do i stop early game rushes?

How to get good enough for noob only

Thank you for your comments.