aoe 2 DE matchfinding and drops are cancer and it's killing me

This is a serious issue. Idgaf about the graphics, the 4k, useless pathing if i cant play the game. I've had 5 games in a row now of people dropping and disconnecting before the game starts and in this 6. game i disconnected like wtf this is a serious issue we should set a system to ban people who drop constantly how is this not being talked about arent you guys bothered by this??????!?

edit: after writing this 10 sec later and going in the 7. game someone else disconnected. .........